There she is. You spotted her a hundred yards away and she is drop dead gorgeous. Breathtaking.
In fact, she did just take your breath away for a millisecond and your heart is pounding now.
The million dollar question is, why?
How come we as men, sometimes find it harder to approach the gorgeous types, then the cute to hot type women?
I know the feeling because I have felt it, so I decided to dig deep and figure out what exactly can be done to combat these irrational feelings that hit when I see a drop dead gorgeous woman.
The first angle I examined, was to see what variable caused me to react differently. The beauty difference between a 7 and a 9 is only 2 points, but the difference is that the cute girl is in line at the club and the gorgeous girl is at the owner’s table. They both are female, both in shape and both attractive. Having sex with either of them would still drain your balls, so what is the inherent difference between the two girls, besides the marked difference in the 9’s looks?
The answer? My perception.
My perception of the 9 was that since she was even more pleasing to my eye, that she must be harder to talk to and harder to pull. False. The irony is that it’s quite the opposite.
Most gorgeous women that I converse with, tell me that they do not get hit on as much as they would like. In fact, they have said that there have been times that they wanted a certain man to talk to them, but he appeared nervous and wouldn’t approach her. In essence, there were men who could have bed these dime pieces, if they had only changed their perception.
The next obvious question is, how does one change their perception of top notch women?
First off, getting a grip on yourself is key. I have paced around grocery stores before swearing at myself to go back and talk to that sexy model type in the produce section, and finally after calming down, have done so. Well, that’s no way to work on an approach so here’s the steps to follow.
1. Take A Deep Breath
Literally take a deep breath. Getting more air in your lungs will send more oxygen to your brain and make you sharper mentally, thus on top of your game.
2. Check In With Yourself
Take 10 seconds and remember who YOU are. You have value. You are a High Value In Development Man. It’s her lucky day that you have chosen to talk to her and possibly want to get her naked. Flip the script and you take control of the situation.
Part of becoming a man is not being affected so much by a woman’s beauty. Have you ever watched a real player in action who has incredible game? He seems unaffected by the beauty of a woman. He may be screaming inside, “Fuckin’ A, this chick is so damn hot, I want to fuck her right now!”, but you would never know it, because on his EXTERIOR he’s cool, calm and collected.
3. Approach Quick
The whole entire process I just wrote down should take you only 10-12 seconds to do. There’s still time for you to approach and guess what? Approach. Now. Do not hesitate a second, because I promise you the more you think about it, you will talk yourself out of approaching her.
Newsflash! Most of the gorgeous women I have approached, have wound up being NICER than than the cute to hot girls. Odd huh? Our minds fuck with us and tell us that the model types are ‘out of our league’ and could care less about talking with us. Bullshit. These girls tend to not get approached as much as I detailed earlier in this post.
Lastly, at the end of the day, the old cliche quote is very, very true: “Every time you see a beautiful woman, there is a man somewhere tired of fucking her”.
Now take action and approach.