‘Yes’ and ‘No’.
‘Yes’, if you allow it to. ‘No’, if you realize that your unshakeable confidence comes from within.
I currently have a full head of hair, however, the two best players I have ever met both went bald early. Real early. As in mid-20’s. One of them was my mentor and much of what I learned about game initially, I learned through him.
This guy was an absolute beast with pulling girls. I asked him one day, “Derek, how has your game changed since you went bald?” He smiled and replied, “It hasn’t. I never based my game on having hair or not. My confidence comes from who I am. Girls don’t seem to care and if they do, fuck em”.
Think about what he said for a second: “Girl’s don’t seem to care and if they do, fuck em”.
That exact attitude is what separated him from the cats who are bald and let their baldness affect their game. His attitude of being the shit, regardless of what some club sluts thought of him, elevates him into the ‘I Don’t Give A Fuck Zone’, which is the premiere place of top players.
There are a couple of physical attributes that we are born with, that we cannot help:
1. Our Height
2. Our Genetic Predisposition To Go Bald
This article isn’t about height (I’ll cover that in the future), so let’s discuss the second attribute.
If you’re going bald, besides the creams and ‘magic potents’ you can take, there’s not a damn thing you can do about it, so what is the solution?
The solution is to start shaving it. Whether you keep a stubble or take it smooth, just by deciding to do it yourself, instead of waiting on nature to finish the job, will give you increased confidence.
The second step is to accept it and move on with life. The more you dwell on it, the more it will affect your confidence. You’re going bald. So what. You weren’t born blind, deaf or dumb. Add to that that some cats look even better with a shaved/bald head. I always wondered what I would look like if I lost my hair, so a few years ago, I picked up my trimmer and went to town in my bathroom. My girlfriend at the time thought I lost my mind, but I didn’t give a fuck, I had to know.
Guess what happened? Nothing changed. Literally nothing. It wasn’t the best look for me, but I didn’t let it affect me gaming girls. I still pulled and didn’t notice a drop-off in girls responses to me. In fact, I started to get attention from other girls who actually dug that look.
Listen gents, you can’t help if you go bald or not, but what you can control is your attitude about it. If you start to go bald, shave your head, embrace the change and move on with life.