There’s an epidemic in our world today of people wanting, wishing and hating.
Do you fall into any of those groups?
We as humans have a tendency to want what others have, especially here in America. This is a toxic attitude, unless one uses their desire to fuel their personal fire.
When I see others with more than me, and I see plenty, it only pushes me harder and motivates me to be the best I can.
To put it simply: You don’t gain personally from hating or wishing, only DOING.
Action is what produces results.
Not hoping (without action).
Not being jealous.
Not pining away at “how life is so unfair!”
No shit life is unfair. It is what it is. I’d make a great trust fund kid haha, because I love to travel, party and have sex with beautiful women, but guess what? I wasn’t born with a trust fund or wealthy parents.
So instead of bitching about it, I rolled up my sleeves and went to work on what I want my life to be like. Is it there yet? It’s close, but not exactly where I want it to be.
Instead of letting societies attitude of jealousy, wishing and hating to consume you, decide that you are going to be different. You’re going to leave the complaining for the losers, the whining for the pathetic and the wishers for the unsuccessful.
Decide today that you’re going to spend your energy on developing your own great life and ignore the haters, because trust me, you will have them as you get more successful.
The funny thing is, is that a lot of people will act ‘supportive’, until you actually start to surpass them in success, then their true colors come out and they may turn into haters.
If you have people in your life who are really supportive of your goals and dreams, then hang on to them, because those are genuinely good people.
One way to keep yourself in check, is to take a drive through your local ghetto. No, I’m not kidding and yes, you’ll be fine. You’re a big boy and you won’t get shot if you don’t act like an idiot.
See the homeless asking for food and money.
See the children playing with old cardboard boxes for ‘toys’ because their families can’t afford to buy them any, or their parents are degenerates wasting money on drugs instead of taking care of their kids.
If you’re really brave, YouTube some third-world countries videos on poverty, famine and disease.
Still think you have it bad?
It’s time for men in today’s day and age to stand up and be leaders.
Fuck the complaining.
Fuck the whining.
Fuck the “life is unfair!” attitude.
Fuck the entitlement attitude.
Fuck hating on others who are successful.
Fuck all of the negative thoughts that try to derail us from our paths to success and start focusing on what IS good in your life.
I can guarantee you that you will never get to where you want to be, if you don’t let go of jealousy, wishing and whining and don’t roll your sleeves up and focus on bettering yourself.
Some may say it’s impossible for everyone to be successful, but this simply isn’t true.
What IS true, is that many people WANT success, but aren’t willing to do what is necessary to be successful.
It’s hard. It’s tough. It may break and make you many times over.
But it is possible, IF you want it more than anything.
Decide today that you’ll no longer be a hater, wisher, daydreamer, or whiner, and instead you will be a DOER.
You can do it. Just put your mind to it.
To your success my friends, I wish you all the best in your quest for greatness!
Remember this commercial? Fuckin A, Jordan is a motivator!
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