Around 10 years ago I decided to go balls to the wall in learning how to become great with women. I dumped my girlfriend at the time, even though she was a high quality girl, and put a massive amount of time, money and energy into figuring out how I could always get girls.
It changed my life.
I had ups and downs, but I wouldn’t trade the last decade for anything.
You’re about to read my 10 tips of wisdom, but here’s the thing: my 10 tips are nowhere near as valuable as the collective wisdom of you readers. If everyone were to chip in 1 tip in the comments below the post, then I’m sure we could come up with a lot of great advice.
So, I would love it if you would read this post and then leave a comment in the bottom. Tell us one piece of advice you would give a guy new to game. Even if you’re not an expert player, I’m sure you’ve got at least 1 great tip (probably many more).
Alright gentlemen, here are 10 Things I Learned From 10 Years In The Game.
#10. Oneitis Is A Bitch
Having had my share of getting infatuated with certain girls, it took trial and error, before I realized my mistakes and changed myself. From being foolish and hitting a depression that would bring the world’s most positive person to their knees, to the highs of finally having control of my emotions, I can truly say that nothing will turn you on to game quicker than seeing the end result of oneitis.
If you find yourself slipping in your current relationship, check yourself.
#9. If A Girl Is Really Into You, Nothing Will Keep Her From You
Sure, girls play games, as do we, but a girl who really has it bad for you will move mountains to be in your presence.
If you find that ‘special’ girl keeps making excuses to not hang out with you, she simply isn’t into you anymore, or has some outside dick.
As painful as that may be to you, don’t stick your head in the sand. Recognize the signs, and correct the situation.
#8. No Girl Is More Important Than Me
Oneitis stems from 3 things:
1. Not having the Law of Abundance.
2. Making the girl your everything and putting yourself second.
3. Putting her pussy on a pedestal.
When I realized that focusing on myself was the best remedy for putting a girl first, many of my problems with females came to an end. Not only that, but women started actively pursuing me more. Women want a high value man and a man who is in demand.
#7. Don’t Unnecessarily Spend Money On Girls
I’m not telling you to never spend money on girls, because there is a time and a place, but what I am saying, is that your finances should always come first.
If you rely on your money to keep her around, let’s all pray you never go bankrupt. As the money goes, so does she.
Build your personal wealth.
Protect your wealth.
And focus on building a great lifestyle for yourself.
Maybe you buy yourself a yacht and she can party on it with you, but don’t go into debt and buy the yacht because she wants it.
Maybe you buy yourself a Manhattan penthouse, but who says she has to live with you in it?
Draw her into your orbit and she can partake in YOUR lifestyle, but remember that you don’t need to blow your savings on a chick. You will live to regret it and you might just ruin yourself financially.
#6. Develop An IDGAF Attitude
The more you can truly embrace an I Don’t Give A Fuck attitude, the quicker life becomes simpler with women.
Also, the more you adopt this attitude, the more you will see women drawn to you.
The less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.
#5. Whoever Cares The Least In The LTR Has The Power
If you find yourself calling, texting and trying to make plans with a girl more than she does to you, than she has the power in the relationship.
This doesn’t mean you don’t care about her, but learn to find a balance and don’t get caught up.
Remember, it’s like poker: if you can’t spot the sucker at the table, than you are the sucker.
#4. Every Pussy Feels Different
I can’t explain it, but from the hundreds of women I’ve slept with, every single one of their pussies felt different.
Some felt better than others, of course, but each and every one had it’s own unique feel.
This is also one reason why I continue to game: the addiction of new feeling pussy is strong haha.
#3. I Haven’t Tried To Break Hearts, But It’s A Part Of The Game (Sometimes)
If you think that you can become a real player and never hurt a girl emotionally, than you might just be smoking crack.
Even if you think that you can be upfront 100% and tell girls you don’t commit and that not one single girl will ever develop feelings for you and start to get attached, then you’re in for a surprise.
I’ve made girls cry.
I’ve made girls hate me.
I’ve made girls cuss me out.
I’ve made girls fuck up my possessions.
It’s the game.
As I got older, I learned how to spot women who would be less prone to getting attached and I have a pretty good eye for spotting the crazies, but I’m sure it’ll happen again, and it is what it is.
#2. Game Is The Greatest High
I may have partaken in certain “activities” in my lifetime (or maybe not), that make a person high, but to this day, nothing gives me a high like the journey of flirting with a girl, seducing her and having great sex.
#1. Game Helps Me In Business
Once you’ve been rejected by hundreds, or maybe even thousands of girls, than you can face business rejection that much easier.
With Game, YOU are the product.
In business, you may have A product.
While it’s easier to take it personal when YOU are the product, it’s much easier to take rejection when you’re just selling A product.
Combine that with the power of Frame and business meetings and negotiations have never been the same for me.
I started out wanting to pull women at anytime and anywhere.
Then, game became a part of my life and changed me for the better in ways I never knew possible.
Game isn’t about learning a couple of pickup lines and ‘moves’. It’s a way of life that will improve you in every aspect if you embrace it wholeheartedly.
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