This came up on the Project Playboy Forum under this thread and I decided to extend my comment with additional notes.
The reality is when you meet a girl you’d like to keep around, you might have to teach her some things.
You will have to teach her some things and hell, there’s nothing wrong with that.
A girl who doesn’t know how to give head usually hasn’t sucked off 100 guys and don’t take her lack of experience, for a lack of enthusiasm.
I’ll take an enthusiastic girl anyday over a jaded pro.
Here’s exactly how you can teach your girl how to give you great head, without insulting her, without causing her to feel insecure and in the process, will establish Deep Conversion techniques that cause her to become head over heels in love with you. I’ve used this process on double digit girls to resounding success.
1. Sit on your couch, chair, or wherever you prefer to get your pole smoked.
2. Put a pillow on the floor in front of you.
3. Tell your girl to get undressed.
4. Have her kneel down in front of you with her knees on the pillow.
5. Tell her, “Baby I want you to take your time with giving me head and I’ll show you exactly what I like. Afterwards I have a surprise for you”.
6. Walk her through it. Examples:
- “less hands”
- “open your mouth wider”
- “choke on it”
- “gag baby gag”
- “let the slobber go”
- “let the drool go”
Pro-Tip: I get specific and dominating and you can always do a Pussy Check during to see how she feels, i.e. finger her from time to time. If her pussy is dripping then she loves it. The pussy don’t lie.
6. The instruction doesn’t stop as you’re about to blow your load. Instead, complete the educational process: walk her through taking your load. Examples:
- “Keep your eyes open. Look up at me”
- “Open your mouth baby. Stick your tongue out”
- “Take my cum. Now”
- Or if you have big balls: shoot your load on a mirror or on the hardwood floor and say this “Lick up my cum” while you hold her by the nape of her neck. Then make her gargle it while looking up at you with her eyes shining brightly. Then tell her “Swallow”. She does and have her stick her tongue out far and check her mouth. Did she swallow every last valuable drop? If so, pat her cheek gently with affection.
7. When she asks what her surprise is, say, “My presence baby. My presence”.
Another great post from one of the forum members (Username: Shotgun Styles) posted this and I’m including it in this post with specific key points bolded for emphasis.
If you’ll note, both of our approaches come from one of being dominating, but in a gentle/’Daddy’ role. Learning this dynamic will greatly improve your game with girls during Deep Conversion and LTRs.
His original post:
“This one’s right down my lane.
1) The most important thing to know about teaching bitches how to fuck is to avoid triggering her insecurities. Soup touched on that. You get harsh and she’ll shut down on you. My never failed line is, “there’s no right way or wrong way, this is just how I like it.” It’s a gentle way of saying, “my way or the highway.”
2) You have to already know what you like and how your dick works. I was 30 something before I knew that the trigger zone was under the cock just behind the head. Without knowing that, how could I teach bitches to focus on it? If I’ve only had a few blowjob partners I don’t have much variety of technique in my experience.
3) Be vocal. Tell her what to do as she’s doing it. Praise her heavily when she gets it right. Contrary to popular belief in the manspace, positive reinforcement does work extremely well with good women. She’ll start sucking your cock just to hear you pour validation on her (pun intended).
4) Get physical. Don’t be afraid to be hands on. Dominate her and make her do it your way. But don’t be impatient or rushed. You’re teaching your little girl how to ride a bike. She’s scared of falling off. She needs you to make her feel safe by being confident and capable. Take your time.
5) Preach enthusiasm and lead by example. I eat pussy like it’s going out of style. I am enthusiastic about it to the extreme. That rubs off when the tables are turned. When you talk about oral (and you should talk) tell her that regardless of technique high energy is what makes a great blowjob. “If you like my cock, like my cum and look me in the eye now and then, good things are bound to happen.”
6) Last and most important: encourage her to experiment. Don’t stifle her creativity. All kinds of magic can happen when a bitch gets a nasty sensual impulse. Tell her to run with it. That will build her confidence and make her look forward to trying out new ideas on you.”
Gentlemen, there is much gold in this post, not only about how to get a girl to give you great head, but in the attitude behind the process.
Have a great weekend, take some time teaching your girl how to give great head and I’ll catch you next week.
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