I’ve been seeing this trend as of late and today a forum member mentioned it as well, so I’m doing a short, but POWERFUL post addressing it.
The ‘trend’ is chicks trying to turn a date into a group-date aka you suggest a spot and conversely she asks to bring her friends or even worse, for you to meet her somewhere where HER friends are.
All together now:
Meeting her with her friends is about the biggest frame fuck of all.
It’s important you’re assertive in how you nip this in the bud, but throw in some slight humor to keep it from seeming like you’re completely inflexible.
Here’s a line (99% of the time via text) that I’ve been using to GREAT affect.
Try it out.
Here’s how the interaction will sometimes go:
Me: meet me at XYZ lounge at 10p. skirt and heels sexy
Her: Okay! Btw my friends are celebrating one of our gfs birthdays at XYZ restaurant. Let’s just meet there!”
Me: No. Leave your chaperones behind. I don’t do ‘group dates’ (NOTE: the word ‘No’ is capitalized on purpose to make it a hard ‘No’ and the wording is SPECIFIC as fuck. I’ve tried variations and this one works best).
Her: Hahahahahaha! Chaperones?!!
Her: Okay. I’ll see you at 10p 🙂
Me: word (alternate text is if you know she’s feeling you hard is: “word. good girl”)
Now note, the KEY WORD is: Chaperones
It’s essential you use that SPECIFIC word and wording when you text her back.
For some reason the word ‘chaperones’ hits em hard, as in ‘are you a strong and empowered independent woman who can’t meet a guy for drinks alone?’
I’ve found that works VERY well because using the specific word ‘chaperone’ is powerful because it’s literally twisting their feminist shit on them.
If you act like they’re NOT empowered and independent, then they’ll do anything in their power to PROVE they ARE.
It’s also sometimes a shit test for her to see if you’re a little bitch who will jump when she says how high. Don’t fail it.
- Sometimes girls use this as making you the Money Man aka you go to the restaurant or bar and they expect you to pick up the tab. Nope.
This trend will no doubt continue until thirsty beta bitch boys wake the fuck up, be a fucking man and unleash their inner Sean Connery.
Imagine: Sean Connery saying, “Okay! Emoji Emoji! Sounds like fun, can’t wait and see you then!” agreeing to meeting the girls in her circle where she picked…
Bah. Never in a million fucking years.
Try it out and see for yourself.
Lastly, if she balks and says no she’s meeting her friends, then my friend, you never had a chance with her anyway and she was just looking for ‘fill time’ for her night anyway.
Screen hard. Screen fast. You’ll ‘lose’ some girls, but the ones you get will be down and down HARD.
Cheers to the motherfucking weekend. I’m currently pumping this out annoying my dog who’s trying to sleep. Oh well, she’s my bitch, she can relax.
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